[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/kde-sa-to-v-tebe-berie\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/kde-sa-to-v-tebe-berie\/","headline":"Kde sa to v tebe berie?","name":"Kde sa to v tebe berie?","description":"\u010casto sa sami seba p\u00fdtame, kde sa v dne\u0161n\u00fdch de\u0165och berie to\u013eko agresivity, zlosti, p\u00fdchy a \u010fal\u0161\u00edch zl\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed. Ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee die\u0165a opl\u00fdva","datePublished":"2017-01-08","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"buerstenmann.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279876_w2038_t1601726776.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279876_w2038_t1601726776.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/kde-sa-to-v-tebe-berie\/","wordCount":445,"articleBody":"\u010casto sa sami seba p\u00fdtame, kde sa v dne\u0161n\u00fdch de\u0165och berie to\u013eko agresivity, zlosti, p\u00fdchy a \u010fal\u0161\u00edch zl\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed. Ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee die\u0165a opl\u00fdva aj tak\u00fdmito \u201edanos\u0165ami\u201c, ke\u010f e\u0161te vlastne ani nemalo \u010das sa stretn\u00fa\u0165 s negat\u00edvami a n\u00e1strahami \u017eivota? Takto to aspo\u0148 vn\u00edmame my dospel\u00ed. Opak je ale pravdou. Deti toti\u017e vn\u00edmaj\u00fa ve\u013emi intenz\u00edvne v\u0161etko, \u010do sa okolo nich deje.  \u010ci u\u017e ide o pozit\u00edvne alebo negat\u00edvne em\u00f3cie a z\u00e1\u017eitky, v\u0161etky si deti pam\u00e4taj\u00fa a pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa ve\u013emi silno. Rodi\u010dia si \u010dasto neuvedomuj\u00fa, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve oni s\u00fa strojcami charakterov\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed ich ratolest\u00ed, preto\u017ee deti kop\u00edruj\u00fa ich spr\u00e1vanie. To, \u010do deti vidia na svojich rodi\u010doch, \u201eokuk\u00e1vaj\u00fa\u201c a pren\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa do svojho \u017eivota a spr\u00e1vania. Ak sa teda zam\u00fd\u0161\u013eame nad t\u00fdm, kde sa v na\u0161om malom synovi alebo dc\u00e9re berie to\u013eko zlosti, ke\u010f s nie\u010d\u00edm nes\u00fahlas\u00ed, mali by sme porozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, \u010di takou istou zlos\u0165ou nereagujeme aj my, ke\u010f sa ocit\u00e1me v pre n\u00e1s nepr\u00edjemnej situ\u00e1cii. To, ako sa spr\u00e1vame toti\u017e vpl\u00fdva na to, \u010di zo svojich det\u00ed vychov\u00e1me sebeck\u00fdch ignorantov alebo nesmel\u00fdch bojkov, ktor\u00ed sa nebud\u00fa vedie\u0165 presadi\u0165.  \u010co im d\u00e1vame? Negat\u00edvne em\u00f3cie: \u00d8 pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 kritika vyvol\u00e1va odsudzovanie seba i in\u00fdch \u00d8 pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 nevra\u017eivos\u0165 v rodine vyvol\u00e1va boj \u010fal\u0161iu nevra\u017eivos\u0165 vo\u010di okoliu \u00d8 posmech vyvol\u00e1va pocit menejcennosti Pozit\u00edvne em\u00f3cie \u00d8 tolerancia vedie k trpezlivosti \u00d8 povzbudenie vyvol\u00e1va sebad\u00f4veru \u00d8 chv\u00e1la u\u010d\u00ed oce\u0148ova\u0165 seba i in\u00fdch \u00d8 pocit bezpe\u010dia vyvol\u00e1va d\u00f4veru v in\u00fdch \u00d8 ak die\u0165a poci\u0165uje l\u00e1sku, vie ju posun\u00fa\u0165 aj \u010falej  Niekto m\u00fadry raz povedal: \u201eDie\u0165a netreba ve\u013emi vychov\u00e1va\u0165. Sta\u010d\u00ed pekne \u017ei\u0165 a ono sa prid\u00e1.\u201c V tejto vete je zakotven\u00e1 cel\u00e1 podstata v\u00fdchovy. Ak sa budeme my rodi\u010dia sna\u017ei\u0165 spr\u00e1va\u0165 sa primerane, zdvorilo, slu\u0161ne a spr\u00e1vne, m\u00e1me ve\u013ek\u00fa n\u00e1dej, \u017ee aj na\u0161e deti bud\u00fa postupova\u0165 v na\u0161ich \u0161\u013eapajach. Je samozrejm\u00e9, \u017ee okrem rodi\u010dov na deti postupne vpl\u00fdva ve\u013emi ve\u013ea \u010fal\u0161\u00edch \u010dinite\u013eov ako je spolo\u010dnos\u0165, m\u00e9dia, kamar\u00e1ti a podobne, ale treba veri\u0165, \u017ee pokia\u013e d\u00e1 rodi\u010d vo v\u00fdchove ten spr\u00e1vny z\u00e1klad, je ve\u013ek\u00e1 pravdepodobnos\u0165, \u017ee die\u0165a bude vo\u010di nepriazniv\u00fdm n\u00e1strah\u00e1m okolia im\u00fanne.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         3.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kde sa to v tebe berie?","item":"https:\/\/www.buerstenmann.sk\/kde-sa-to-v-tebe-berie\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]